Infidelity causes intense emotional pain--anger, disbelief, fear, guilt and shame. But an affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage.
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It’s the time of year for good cheer, and one aspect of that cheer is the office Christmas party. Apparently, these parties are quite a popular time for workplace infidelity to occur. I’m almost certain that the two biggest reasons for this are the presence of alcohol and the absence of the cheater’s spouse at [...]
This weekend we received an email from a person who has some serious suspicions about her husband and the possibility that he is having an emotional affair with one of his co-workers. She really didn’t have any hard evidence – just a gut feeling. She was questioning whether or not she should confront her husband [...]
Well the Twitter “sexting” story of Rep. Anthony Weiner has been brewing for about a week or so, and yesterday he finally broke down and decided to tell the truth that he had indeed sent the inappropriate tweets to several women over a three year time span. In case you missed it last week, he [...]
Over the weekend, we were lounging around watching the NFL playoff games, as we are big football fans. During one commercial break there was a spot that featured a man that was professing his distaste for Ashley Madison, which in case you were not aware, is a site much like Match.com or other dating sites, [...]
The other day I was taking my daughters to school, and as usual we were listening to the “Bob and Tom” radio show, and they mentioned a recent study by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. The study said that 20 percent of divorces involve Facebook, and that 80 percent of divorce lawyers reported a [...]
It’s tough to control your spouse’s behavior, but the last thing you want to do is set yourself up for possible betrayal and the immense pain that an affair can bring. Affair-proof your marriage by making sure you’re attentive, involved and tuned in to your marriage. Do You Think Your Spouse is Having an Affair? [...]
This weekend we met up with some of our old college friends and Doug’s fraternity brothers for a enjoyable night out. Some of these guys we haven’t seen in over twenty years. It was fun catching up on everyone’s lives, reliving old antics and feeling twenty again. For me it was especially enjoyable because I [...]
There has been a lot of discussion lately about whether a cheating spouse should confess their marital affair to his/her partner. There are basically two schools of thought on this—Yes or No. And to be honest, there are valid arguments that exist for both schools of thought. We’re not going to come right out and [...]
We have written so much about the intoxicating feelings received during an emotional affair, and the pain and recovery of the betrayed spouse. However one area we have neglected to touch on is the effort involved in maintaining an affair. We are talking about the time, the sacrifices and the work that is required to [...]
One topic that we haven’t really touched on yet, and to some folks is somewhat controversial, is whether or not you should give in to spying in order to catch a cheating spouse. Many victims notice unusual behaviors and emotions from their spouses, but yet have no proof of there actually being any infidelity. Entire [...]
