Infidelity causes intense emotional pain--anger, disbelief, fear, guilt and shame. But an affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage.
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A lot of people refer to the day you discover your spouse’s affair. Sometimes it is referred to as D-Day or Armageddon or something such as that to describe how your world gets turned upside down, and it’s so alien from what it once was. During this time it is so common to feel completely [...]
This weekend we met up with some of our old college friends and Doug’s fraternity brothers for a enjoyable night out. Some of these guys we haven’t seen in over twenty years. It was fun catching up on everyone’s lives, reliving old antics and feeling twenty again. For me it was especially enjoyable because I [...]
Recently we have blogged about infidelity as an addiction, and many of the comments and emails that we have received mention how hard it is for an infidel to not only leave their affair partner after ending an affair, but also to get over them sufficiently enough to move on to save the marriage.
Anytime that [...]
Your comments from my post from yesterday were insightful and helped me to make a move in the right direction. I believe that I should personally deal with this emptiness feeling and figure out what is missing in my life after Doug’s emotional affair. I am not looking for a quick solution. I am just [...]
I was reading some of the comments this weekend and I felt that so many of them had the same theme and many of the same problems voiced by the betrayed spouse after the affair. I also felt the same sentiment but I really couldn’t put my finger on just what it was. I [...]
I have read all of John Gray’s books in the past, and recently picked up his new one called, “Venus on Fire Mars on Ice.” It has a lot of the scientific data that I enjoy absorbing. I haven’t realized this about myself until after the affair, but I am somewhat of a geek. [...]
Virtually all of our posts on this blog to date have been geared towards helping couples save their marriage or relationship after an affair. Sometimes however, after all the soul searching, therapy, pain and emotions it becomes evident that the only conclusion that can be made is that the marriage must come to an end. [...]
Happy Wednesday!
Let’s get right to the point here. We feel we have an interesting subject for this week’s open discussion:
Commitment is the glue that holds two people together through difficult times. Has experiencing an affair changed your views on commitment within your marriage? What enables you to stay the course and [...]
Experiencing the trauma of an affair can be bad enough to endure, but one of the most devastating aspects of an affair is the effect it can have on your self-esteem. It can make you feel that you are a terrible, worthless person. After all, why else would your spouse have an affair and risk [...]
I hope everyone had a great Mother’s Day. Mine was wonderful as usual (except during the affair year that is). My family always went the extra mile to show how much they appreciate me. Their tradition always included breakfast in bed, flowers, cards, gifts, a day of family fun and they always made me feel [...]
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