lessons learned after infidelity

4 Lessons Learned from 2+ Years of Hell

By “Jack” Several months back we had a mentoring client, “Jack,” who was betrayed by his wife.  Recently he sent us an email expressing his desire to write a post sharing some of his experiences and lessons learned after infidelity.   Please read on… I am very sorry you are reading this.  You are undoubtedly going […]

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Your 2018 New Year’s Resolutions for Affair Recovery

  (Note:  This is a re-post from last year, but we’ve updated it for 2018) Happy New Year! Every year we spend a great deal of time during the week between Christmas and New Year’s working on our resolutions for the upcoming new year. This year, we did things a little differently.  This year we […]

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Merry Christmas!

  Photo by Lewis Minor     Every time a hand reaches out  To help another….that is Christmas  Every time someone puts anger aside  And strives for understanding  That is Christmas  Every time people forget their differences  And realize their love for each other  That is Christmas  May this Christmas bring us  Closer to the […]

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Discussion – Your Recovery and Healing Wish List for the Holidays

Each year about this time we post a discussion about what you want most for the holidays.  And we’re not talking about that new car or diamond bracelet!  Rather, let’s delve into your affair recovery and healing wish list during the holiday season. The holidays are here  and we’re sure that many of you trying […]

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When Recovering from an Affair

It’s Time for a Christmas Miracle: How to Have a Holiday Truce When Recovering from an Affair

By Sarah P. Despite all the messages that tell us to spread cheer or have a Holly-Jolly Christmas, the holidays can be a very difficult time for many people. Not all families are as happy as television commercials portray and not all Hanukkahs or Christmases inspire feelings of joy and togetherness. When recovering from an […]

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Why Don’t Cheaters Leave Their Spouses

Why Don’t Cheaters Leave Their Spouses for the Affair Partner?

  The stats are overwhelmingly high that married men and women who have affairs typically don’t leave their spouse for the affair partner. So why don’t cheaters leave their spouses? Most betrayed spouses want to believe that their unfaithful partner stayed because they realized that they had made a terrible mistake and remained in the […]

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Haunting Images: What Happens When You Know Too Many Details of Your Partner’s Affair

By Sarah P. There are many events and feelings that are universal to infidelity and all of these events can be equally difficult. But, today, I wanted to talk about when you know too many details of your partner’s affair  – his or her experience and intimate life with the other person – and how […]

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You Decide

She Says Porn Viewing is Cheating. He Disagrees. You Decide!

This is the latest installment of our ‘You Decide’ series where you will provide your opinion on a fictional affair scenario.  In this case, we need you to decide if John’s occasional porn viewing is indeed cheating – as his wife, Janine asserts. John had an emotional affair with a woman some 6 years ago. […]

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I love you, but I am not in love with you

The Most Horrific Sentence in the English Language: I Love You, But I Am Not in Love with You.

“I love you, but I am not in love with you” is a catchall phrase that does not force people to look deeper or to find the real problem. By Sarah P. Step right up folks and take a look: here before you sits the famous House of Horrors. It does not matter the time […]

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Getting to Complete Honesty After the Affair

Sadly, after the affair D-day bomb drops, the pain just begins for the betrayed spouse.  The unfaithful spouse however, may feel a sense of relief and that “it’s finally over.” The unfaithful person feels relieved that the big secret about their affair has been exposed, and the stress of living a double life is released, […]

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