Cheating Spouse Gets Dumped On

Feb 27, 2010  |  under Videos  |  by Doug

This video of a cheating spouse getting her beloved convertible filled with horse manure was forwarded to us the other day, and I must say that we had a nice chuckle watching it. However, one thing that we discussed after viewing it was the issue of taking revenge after discovering your spouse had an [...]

Marital Infidelity—an Addiction

Feb 26, 2010  |  under Ending an Affair  |  by Doug

I was in my car the other day listening to talk radio and there was a marital infidelity counselor on who was taking calls from listeners.  One of the callers was in an affair with a woman in his city and he was having a hard time ending it.  In fact, he said that he [...]

After Infidelity: Renegotiate Your Relationship

Feb 25, 2010  |  under After the Affair, Forgiving Infidelity  |  by Doug

While doing some research the other day, I came across some good advice from Hara Estroff Marano about how a couple can renegotiate their relationship after infidelity. She says that affairs are not about logic, “and recovering after infidelity doesn’t just happen with time; you and your spouse have to fully process the experience and [...]

Infidelity: 8 Stages of Recovery

Feb 24, 2010  |  under Healing From Infidelity, Videos  |  by Doug

Today we wanted to show you a nice video from Dr. Huizenga, the Infidelity Coach, and author of “Break Free From the Affair” about the 8 Stages of Recovery. In the video he goes through the 8 different emotions that one feels after being victimized by infidelity. One of the main points of [...]

Recovery from an Emotional Affair

Feb 23, 2010  |  under Forgiving Infidelity  |  by Doug

If your marriage or relationship has fallen victim to an emotional affair, the first step in recovery is honesty, according to psychologist Barry McCarthy. “It is secrecy that enables affairs to thrive. The cover-up, for most people, is worse than the actual infidelity,” he says. “So it’s only by putting everything on the table that [...]

Reader Involved in Emotional Affair

Feb 22, 2010  |  under Emotional Affairs, Ending an Affair  |  by Doug

We received a comment over the weekend that is significant in that it is from a reader who is actually involved in an emotional affair, and has been for the past four years.  It sheds some light on the emotional confusion that one can feel when involved in an emotional affair.  It also confirms (at [...]

Are Humans Meant to be Monogamous?

Feb 20, 2010  |  under Sex and Marriage  |  by Doug

The following article was published on LiveScience.com a year or so ago and we thought it was pretty interesting.  We would be curious to know your thoughts on the subject.
News of politicians’ extramarital affairs seems to be in no short supply lately, but if humans were cut from exactly the same cloth as other mammals, [...]

Communicate to Save Your Marriage

Feb 19, 2010  |  under Save Your Marriage  |  by Doug

Many people have a hard time expressing their feelings.  Obviously this can create many problems within a marriage since communication and the sharing of feelings is at the very core of a good relationship.   But the fact remains that some people have a very difficult time communicating.  For a couple who are struggling in their [...]

Forgiving Infidelity

Feb 18, 2010  |  under Forgiving Infidelity, Healing From Infidelity  |  by Doug

I recently was introduced to a book by Dave Carder called: “Torn Asunder: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair” and it brought to light some interesting points on recovering from infidelity for both the person who committed the infidelity and for the victim/spouse.  The book has a religious slant to it since Mr. Carder is a [...]

Don’t Be A Doormat When Trying To Save Your Marriage

Feb 17, 2010  |  under Save Your Marriage  |  by Linda

We received an email the other day that we wanted to share it with you along with a response from Linda.  Hopefully, you can get some value from it.  I know that we both did.  After we read this email from “Maria” it really struck a chord with us, and it had Linda visibly upset [...]

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