Infidelity causes intense emotional pain--anger, disbelief, fear, guilt and shame. But an affair doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage.Salvaging Your Relationship After An Affair
Here is another short video from Dr. Sheri Meyers about what you need to do after the affair. Many of the ideas that she mentions, Linda and I have done, and they do work. Check it out and give it a try.
How Would You Accept Emotional Infidelity?
Jan 29, 2010 | under Forgiving Infidelity | by Doug
While surfing the web the other day, I came across the following article which discusses how a study suggests that women have a harder time accepting emotional infidelity, while men have a harder time with sexual infidelity.
In our own circumstance, I can attest to the fact that on more than one occasion, Linda has said [...]
Think Before Having an Affair
Today I’m going to do something a little different and present a little audio clip that I put together this morning. It basically deals with the importance of thinking before you act on any type of affair, whether sexual or emotional in nature. Don’t worry, it’s not extremely long or anything and [...]
Facts You Need to Know About Infidelity
Jan 27, 2010 | under Surviving an Affair | by Doug
Today we are honored to have Dr. Robert Huizenga, The Infidelity Coach as a guest blogger. Dr. Huizenga has been a Marriage and Family Therapist and Psychotherapist, and has worked with hundreds of couples and thousands of individuals experiencing individual and marital problems (such as affairs). He is the author of “Break Free From the [...]
Linda’s View of Ending an Affair
After reading Doug’s post about ending an affair, I decided to write a perceptive from my point of view. I have researched loads of statistics pertaining to people leaving their spouses for their affair partners and just how successful the resulting marriages were. In the book How to Get Him Back from the [...]
Friday Night Was a Rough One!
I am having much difficulty each time I read one of Doug’s posts. For some reason, after reading his last post, I became very emotional and upset and he is having a hard time dealing with this. He doesn’t understand why I become so upset about something that happened a year ago and has been [...]
Ending the Affair
I wanted to share another brief video by Dr.Sheri Meyers, as I feel this one is also very good and is one that I can really relate to. She mentions that people who get involved in any type of affair usually have something that is missing in their relationship with their partner which [...]
Stupid Things Said While in an Affair
Jan 22, 2010 | under Surviving an Affair | by Linda
Hello again,
This post may not be appropriate, however sometimes it’s nice to add a little humor when the content is so serious. I did not intend to make fun of Doug or make him look stupid, even though he was! I just think some of the things he said were humorous.
It’s true that when [...]
Find the Strength To Survive the Affair
Jan 21, 2010 | under Surviving an Affair | by Linda
I received an email from someone today that brought me back to a time where I was feeling lost, frustrated and didn’t know where to turn. I wanted to help this women and give her to some insight so she would have the strength to survive an affair and save her marriage. During [...]
Save Marriage Secrets with Save My Marriage Today
Hi there,
After Linda discovered my emotional affair with Tanya, she became a research fanatic. She scoured the Internet for hours at a time trying to find anything that would help our situation and offer advice on how to heal the pain that she was feeling. I reluctantly read several of them, but most of them [...]
